A Lily Among the Thorns

Q&A With Lindsee

2010-02-03T09:28:00.000-08:00

Hey loves!

First off, I feel like I should say Happy New Year since it is indeed, the new year and this is the first time I'm writing you. I'd love to say that at some point I'll get this blogging thing down, but I don't want to make any promises I can't keep. So I'm just going to say, I'll blog when I blog and yada, yada, yada. How's that?

We've already had our Winter Retreat which is nuts! So much of me is glad it's behind us, because of all the work that goes into it, but the other part of me is so sad it's over because I love me a good retreat weekend! And Love Conspiracy did not disappoint.

Anyway, I won't terry to long because I want to get straight to the point here. At the Girls Retreat each year we've had a neat Q&A time. This is honestly one of my favorite times with y'all because it gives you the chance, anonymously if you don't feel comfortable asking it up front, to ask any question you want and hopefully in return, receive some Godly wisdom. However, each year, we have far from scratched the surface to get them done, so I thought it would be fun to have a Q&A time each week on the blog. Not only will it be fun, but it will also keep me accountable to actually get on here and say hello. Some weeks they may be some of the serious questions you asked (sweet mercy y'all can ask some serious questions, which is great!) and some weeks it may be the silly, more fun questions. I guess it will depend on my mood! ;)

So, why linger on? Without further ado, today I'll answer one serious and one fun question!

What is your favorite place to shop?
I am so glad you asked! Seriously, I love, love, love to shop. I'd like to say it's one of my hobbies, however, if it was an everyday thing, I'd be considerably broke. What I do like to do is shop sales! I never, I repeat never, buy anything at full price. I'm a bargain shopper at best! With that said, some of my favorite stores to shop at are TJ Maxx, Ross, Target, Old Navy, Gap and Forever 21. I clearly have long legs, so buying jeans for me is no small task, nor cheap because of my insanely long inseam, however the store Buckle always seems to do the trick and a website called Alloy.com also provides me with long pants and jeans at a very discounted price. I love it!

Where do you like to shop?

If your friends are going through hard times, how do you help them?
Inevitably, girls, you will always go through life where either you are going through a hard time, or a friend is, so this question is perfect. Just the fact that you want to know encourages me! Your friends need you during hard times, whether or not you think they need you or if they even let on that you're needed.

The number one thing you can do is first off listen to them. Sometimes it's better not to say anything and just listen to how they're doing, or what's going on. We get so anxious sometimes because we don't feel equipped to help our friends, but the Lord gave us two ears and one mouth. Truly listening and validating their feelings is your first duty.

Another encouraging thing to do is to send them a letter (I personally am a fan of snail mail!) or an email to let them know you're praying and thinking about them. It's easy to get caught up in life and forget about certain situations, but when the Lord brings them to mind, stop and take a moment to pray for them, or send them a message on facebook. What you may think may be mundane, may mean the world to your friend.

I think this one goes without saying, but pray for them. You don't have to pray some outlandish prayer, but just ask the Lord to give them peace in their situation and wisdom and that they would become more like Him in whatever they're going through.

And lastly, ask them what you can do for them. They may not have an answer for you, but just you asking let's them know that you care and are there for them when they need you!

Well sweet girls, I hope you enjoyed the first rendition of Q&A with Lindsee. Just know that I have plenty more to answer. This is going to be fun!

Love to you today,
Lindsee

Behind the Scenes Favorites

2009-11-17T13:54:00.000-08:00

Wow, girls! I don't even know how to start this post. To say that you girls bless me immensely is quite the understatement. You have surely stolen my heart and have made it so full! Do you know how much I love each of you and love to serve you? Oh, I do. And I hope you hear that with such a genuine and authentic attitude.

I had such a blast this weekend at the retreat! Did you not just love everything about it? Chandra Peele? Jourdan Burks? They did such a good job this weekend, didn't they! They have such a heart for teenage girls as well so it was so much fun serving with them.

And need I even mention the beauty pageant? Oh girls. Y'all are one creative bunch and certainly made me laugh my ever livin' head off. I cannot wait to see the pictures Michaela took, because I know they will be good.

I so want to hear your favorite part of the weekend. So, please feel free to comment and let me know what you loved about this weekend. It can be fun, serious, silly or whatever. I just want to hear from you!

However, before I let you go, I'll share with you my favorite moment. This is hard because I truly loved the whole retreat. I just did. But, I think my favorite was the very end when Chandra shared the gospel and when 4 girls responded to the gospel by accepting Jesus Christ for the very first time. Sweet mercy! Do you know that that is the most important decision you'll ever make in your entire life? It was the sweetest, and I mean sweetest thing to watch. It was also encouraging and chilling to see so many of you be so bold to make other commitments to Christ this weekend. Clearly, it brought many tears to my eyes. I could have bawled if I'd of let myself. Girls, He wants and deserves your heart. He is so worthy! And you can certainly trust Him with your heart and your sweet life. He knows what He's doing.

I hope and pray that this weekend you had a paradigm shift in your mind in heart in what it means to live for Christ. To live an authentic and real life before Him and others. There is no need to hide Behind the Scenes. If you're living like that, you're not living life to the full like He's called us to live. If any of you sweet things ever need anything, or just an ear to talk to, please know that I am always here! I love you girls dearly and look forward to what He does in each of your lives. It is a pleasure to sit back and watch it all take place. He's up to something, girls!

I love you! And so does our Jesus!

Now, spill the beans! Tell me your favorite memory! I can't wait to hear some!

Lindsee

A Little Bit About Me

2009-10-29T14:21:00.000-07:00

Girls, check it out! Two blogs in one week? That is unheard of. Just trying to stay true to my word and blog more often! Anyway, I did this fun questionnaire on my own blog and it was super fun so I thought I'd share it with y'all. I'd love to hear some of your answers! Hope you enjoy!

1. What is your favorite thing to snack on while your blogging?

This would be hands down, Dove Milk Chocolates. I’m enjoying one right this very moment. They don’t get your hands all sticky and dirty when you’re typing. Plus, sometimes those inspirational sayings get me all inspired. Profound, I know. (Shout out to my 2:42 loves!)

My two most current inspirational sayings:

“Success is the sum of many small efforts.”

“Dream as if you’ll live forever. Live as if you’ll die tomorrow.”

If those words don’t change your life I don’t know what will.

2. What is one thing you don't want to live without?

Water. Not really for drinking, (although I do love drinking it) but more for bathing. I am OCD when it comes to shower cleanliness and after spending a week in Mexico with only one shower, I’ve come to the conclusion that I do not like living without water.

3. Beach, Mountains, or Farm? Where would you live if you had a choice?

This is a huge tossup between the mountains and the beach. I have to say though, that if you lived by a beach you could only really be able to enjoy it for so many months, whereas the mountains you can enjoy year round. So, I’ll go with the mountains.

4. What's your least favorite chore/household duty?

I’d have to go with laundry. I don’t mind putting it in the washer and dryer, it’s the getting-out-and-hanging-up-or-putting-away-before-wrinkling that I really loathe.

5. Who do people say you remind them of?

Not a fat clue. But one time my aunt told me I looked like Jennifer Garner. True or not, I’ll take it!

6. Prefer parties and socializing or staying home with the fam?

I love both. I’m such a people person and love, love socializing, but I also really enjoy some comfy couch time at home just relaxing.

7. What's your all time favorite movie?

This is super hard! I’m easily entertained so I enjoy a lot of movies, but I think I’ll have to go with Father of the Bride. It’s such a classic and without a doubt I cry every time as George (Steve Martin) is about to walk Annie (Kimberly Williams-Paisley) down the aisle. In his words, “This was the moment I'd been dreading for the past six months. Well, actually for the past 22 years.” Tear.

8. Do you sleep in your make-up or remove it like a good little girl every night?

I am a very, very good girl. I haven’t missed a night of washing my face since 7th grade. And I’m not even exaggerating or kidding. There are few (okay, maybe not “few”) things in life I’m anal about and this is one of them. Let’s face it, I didn’t go on Accutane two years ago to ruin my face now by not washing it. We’re not going down that road again!

9. Do you have a hidden talent or a deep desire to learn something that you've never had a chance to learn? What is it?

Maybe it’s my obsession with Biggest Loser? I don’t know, but I think it would be fun to be a Personal Trainer. That’s so weird, I know. But to make it non-weird, I also think it would be neat if I could dance really well. Or maybe even be a counselor? I honestly have no clue. There is a fog in my brain and at the moment it’s all I could come up with. So much of a fog that this was the last question I answered. I was that lost.

10. What's one strange thing you're really good at?

I don’t know if it’s strange, but I think I’m pretty good at planning events. I am a very detailed person so this really helps in the process. I’m also strangely good at making custom plates for people with my super neat handwriting. Or writing on anything for that matter. (Another thing I’m good at, I guess?) Speaking of those plates, I’ve totally fallen off that bandwagon for the time being. I’m just too busy to actually sit down and do them.

11. What first attracted you to your spouse?

This is not applicable to my life. But if I did have a spouse, I’d like to say it was his eyes and sense of humor. And if you want Godly, I guess how much he loves Jesus! Hey, a girl can dream can’t she? See #2 quote on question #1. Words to live by, folks. Words to live by.

12. What is something you love to smell?

I love the way Clorox bleach smells. It’s that super clean smell that gives you a sense of satisfaction. But I also love Laugh by Brighton. Hence why I wear it.

13. Tell something about you that you know irritates people.

Besides talking about my singleness…Ha!

No, I’m not the best about staying in touch with those who live far away. I would much rather see them face to face and enjoy their company, which makes talking on the phone super hard for me. I do it, but I’m not the best at it.

14. When you have extra money, what's the first thing you think to do with it?

Easy. I’m a girl. I love to shop.

15. Are you a silent laugher or a loud laugher? What makes you laugh the hardest?

Again, both. Most times I start out loud, with a super high pitch at the end, but if it continues to be funny, or I’m really tickled, I go into the silent, snorty (is that a word?), hard to breathe laugh. To say that laughing is my favorite hobby would be the biggest understatement of my life. I’ve been known to laugh a time or two during inappropriate situations. Like say funerals, or when a deaf man took my order at TGI Friday’s once, or when my BFF and I were singing at our other BFF’s wedding and during the middle of the song, the unity candle popped out of the holder and we were worthless. Thankfully we pulled it together, but really? Worst timing ever.

16. Where is your favorite place to shop?

Target. Forever 21. Ross. TJ Maxx. Gap. Macy’s.

17. What is one thing you would do more often if you had more time?

I would probably read and write more often. Although I’m not the best writer, I do thoroughly enjoy it.

18. Are you a big spender or frugal?

I am frugal for the mere fact that I never buy anything at full price. I am a super great bargain shopper thanks to my mom, however, I’ll spend a chunk of money, on non-full price items every few months.

19. Who is your favorite character of all time? (from a movie or a book, can't be real)

I’d have to say either Michael Hosea from Francine River’s Redeeming Love or Michael Vaughn from my all time favorite T.V. show Alias. Two completely different characters, yes, but I think the way they’re both passionate about what they do and fight for the people they love is why I love them so much. How ironic that they’re both Michael’s? I just realized that. Maybe it’s a sign. But it’s probably not.

20. Would you want to be famous?

I go back and forth. I think for a time it would be fun. Not super famous like Oprah, Jennifer Aniston, Brad Pitt or so on, but I think it would be fun to excel at something for enough people to notice where you get all the perks of being famous. What I would not like is the fact that I’d have no privacy and people constantly judging every cookie I put in my mouth or step I took. And I always wonder if famous people are really happy? I mean, where does their joy come from? The fact that people love them and are obsessed with them? I think that’s strange. So maybe it’d be fun for a day or two.

There you have it, folks. The randomness that is Lindsee Lou. It would be fun if you did this, too!

Love,
Lindsee

Behind The Scenes

2009-10-28T09:47:00.000-07:00

Hey girls! How is life? Look at me. I said I'd be all better about blogging here and clearly, I am failing miserably. Anyway, our retreat is in a little over 2 weeks. Can you believe it? Yours truly has hit the ground running with all things details for the retreat and all I'm sayin' is, you do not want to miss out.

In case you haven't seen the brochure, here is a little bit more about the retreat.

Scripture: Psalm 32:3-5 “When I refused to confess my sin, my body wasted away, and I groaned all day long. Day and night your hand of discipline was heavy on me. My strength evaporated like water in the summer heat. Finally, I confessed all my sins to you and stopped trying to hide my guilt. I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the LORD.” And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone.” (NLT)

In today’s culture we all go and go and go and put on a façade that all is okay, but the truth is we are all dealing with real issues, and most times, no one, not even our closest friends know what’s going on with us. It is my heart’s desire that each and every girl that comes to the retreat would feel the freedom to be real and talk about what’s going on behind the scenes of our everyday lives. God doesn’t call us to live a secret, shame-filled life, but one of great freedom and life to the fullest. Psalm 32 will take us through this process and it is a sweet one. It’s a psalm of thanksgiving that I am praying we all leave changed by! You can also check out the song, Behind the Scenes, by Francesca Battistelli as that is our theme song for the weekend.

Date: November 13th – 14th

Place: Embassy Suites Houston – Energy Corridor
11730 Katy Freeway,
Houston, Texas 77079

Worship Leader: Jourdan Burks (www. jourdanburks.com)

Speaker: Chandra Peele (www.gabministries.com)

Cost: $60 (Includes: Room cost, breakfast & lunch on Saturday, t-shirt, and other fun stuff.) *Scholarships are available

Who: ALL Middle School & High School Girls (6th- 12th grade)

Time: Friday @ 6:00 p.m. – Saturday @ 4:00 p.m.

Registration Deadline: November 1st at midnight

Frequently Asked Questions:

1) Do I need to provide transportation to and from the retreat?
Yes, as a parent you are responsible for getting your girl to the retreat and back. Since it is only a short distance it is cheaper than providing transportation. However, feel free to carpool with other girls, meet somewhere and come together. I know a lot of groups have talked about doing this and I think that is very fun, and wise.

2) Will there be a chaperone in each room?
Yes, there will be at least one adult/college lady in each room. Each room is a suite which holds 6 girls, so there will be 4-5 girls in each room with one adult.

3) Do I need to eat dinner on Friday night before I come?
Yes, Saturday breakfast and lunch will be provided and we will have snacks all throughout the weekend, but it is your responsibility to eat before you come.

4) How many nights is it?
One night only and will conclude at 4:00 p.m. on Saturday.

5) Is a t-shirt included in the price?
Yes, this year when you register and pay, you are automatically guaranteed a t-shirt if you register by Nov 1st. That is why we you to fill out the exact size you want on your registration form.

6) Will my daughter be in a room with her friends?
Each of the girls will be in a room with their grade. So, I can’t promise that she’ll be in a room with all of her friends; however, we have a spot on the registration form to request 2 roommates of your choice. I will do my best to put the roommate choices in with one another. She will know at least one or two girls in her room for sure. Especially if your daughter has invited a guest, I’ll be sure to place them together.

7) Can my daughter come early/leave early?
Yes, for sure. However, if that is the case I need to know by you filling out the time away form that can be found in the student ministry office. This must be signed by one parent.

8) How can I register?
You can either register by going online to cypressbible.org/students and click on the web link or you can pick up a registration form in the Service Station or SM Alcove, fill it out, attach a check/cash and turn in to one of the 3 tool boxes. If you register online you have the option of paying with a credit card.

Well sweet girls, I hope that each of you are planning on coming and bringing a friend. It is going to be a blast and I absolutely cannot wait! If you enjoyed it last year, you have no idea what you're in for this year.

Thank you for letting me serve you girls and for making is so much fun!

Lindsee

And We're Back In The Game

2009-09-15T11:39:00.000-07:00

Girls!

Bless my heart! I have ignored you since March! How dare I??

Needless to say, it was one fast and furious summer and I can't believe it is completely over, in every sense of the word.

Summer is gone. Fall is here. Where does time go?

Well, there is no reason to tarry on about something of the past, so we'll move onto new, exciting things for this fall.

At least I hope they're new and exciting.

First off, our first BLAB of the semester will take place at my new house starting next week. I am so excited to get back at those! It gives me a chance to see all of you sweet things during the week and talk about strictly girly things with no boy distractions. We need no distractions every once in a while! This first one is for just high school girls, but middle school girls, no worries, yours will start soon. So, next Wednesday evening, the 23rd, be there or be sorry.

Since putting my address on the world wide web for all to see would be plain stupid (Girls, you should NEVER do that, either) just be sure to grab a BLAB flyer at church. It has all the information you need on it. Or, feel free to call or email me at the church office!

Secondly, you should get super excited about our 2nd Girls Retreat, Behind the Scenes! I am just thrilled to pieces and am hoping you'll join me in the excitement. It's going to be even bigger and better than last year! This year we're having it and staying at a hotel, and seriously, who doesn't love a hotel sleepover with your favorite girlfriends?? Oh no, you do not want to miss out. That date is November 13th - 14th so be sure to put it on your calendar now! More details and information will be coming to a church near you very, very soon! Also, registration will start soon as well, so be on the look out for that, too. Get excited, girls!

Well, how's that for a lame re-entry into the blogworld post? Ha! I promise to be better about blogging from here on out.

However, I'll leave you with one other random fact of the day:

Tonight, my favorite show ever premieres! What is it, you ask? That would be The Biggest Loser! To say that I am slightly obsessed with this show would be an understatement. For some reason I love it to absolute pieces and miss it tremendously when it's not on. There is just something about watching real people transform their lives right before your eyes. It motivates me to live a healthy and active lifestyle. We are a temple of the Holy Spirit and it is only right that we take care of the bodies we've been given to reside in here on this earth. Plus, it reminds me of the transformation that can take place in our lives through Jesus Christ when we allow Him to truly transform us. (Romans 12:2 & 2 Corinthians 3:18) He is more than willing to work with us to transform our lives, and even fights for us (Exodus 14:14), but we have to be willing to do the work it takes to be a free people and to live the lives He's called us too! It's a sweet transformation if you ask me.

Okay, enough about that silly show that has clearly stolen my heart.

What is your favorite show? Premiere week is this week so I know something is coming on that you've been dying to watch all summer. I'd love to hear it! Spill the beans!

Have a terrific Tuesday!

Lindsee

I Want to Hear from YOU!

2009-03-30T13:25:00.000-07:00

Hey Sweet Girls!

First off, don't you love our new layout? I sure do. It kind of reminds me of a baby girl, but still, I like it nonetheless.

Anyway, I just got to thinking about BLAB, and to be honest, sometimes I have a hard time coming up with what we might study that particular night, so, I had the grand idea to summon you, the girls that actually come to hear a Word!

So, riddle me this, what is something that you are really interested in and want to hear about? What is something on your heart that you would love to learn more about and dig into God's Word about? I know in high school I had a gazillion questions about this and that but never asked anyone because I simply didn't know who to ask. I wanted to give you the opportunity to let me know what you are interested in.

It seriously can be anything. I am here to serve you, and hearing from you helps me serve you better!

If it is something that you think is embarrassing or shameful, feel free to remain anonymous. Or, just remain anonymous anyway!

I just want to hear what is on your heart.

You girls are awesome and I love getting to serve you. I hope you hear that from a sincere heart.
Hope your Monday was great!

Lindsee

P.S. Also, I wanted to remind you that we are having BLAB in April for both Jr. High and High School, so be looking for the dates and places to be announced soon.

P.S.S. For the High School girls, one last thing, I am going to be at the McDonald's at Jones and Grant at 6:30 a.m. this coming Wednesday to spend some time in prayer with those who want to join me before our day starts. It has been a great way to start our Wednesdays and I have loved the times we have had these prayer times. They are so sweet! I hope to see more of your faces there.

Real Beauty

2009-03-03T12:30:00.000-08:00

I know a lot of our 2:42 groups are going through the Bible Study: The Lies Young Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. My group (which is the Junior Girls) is going through it also and personally, it is kicking me in the rear. It has been just as good for me to hear as it has been for those girls! What has been so intriguing is that many of these lies we are discussing are lies that are not so obvious and that really bog us down. As hard as it is to do the bible study and realize that you have fallen victim to these oh, so subtle lies, it is rewarding to, in return, to replace those lies with the truth of God's Word.

Yes, it is much easier said than done, but our minds are being renewed slowly, and frankly, Satan hates it.

One of the last lies we discussed was that beautiful girls are worth more. At first I struggled with this lie, because honestly, I know that is not true. I know it is inward beauty that matters. However, I really searched my heart and thought about it, and of course I believe that lie! The reason I struggled with it is because I am not one that has pictures of models taped all over my walls, nor do I read magazine after magazine, or even watch any of the model shows that are all over T.V.

So, what is feeding this lie?

That would be me, myself and I. I don't do any of the things listed above, but I do compare myself to every other girl out there. Who is prettier, has better hair, better skin, a better body, you name it, I compare it! And then to add to that, I see any one of these said girls with their prince charming and immediately my thought is, well of course they have a boy, they're drop dead gorgeous! And that is when I feed the lie, because it is then that I believe that I am not.

The truth is, however, is that 'the King is enthralled by my beauty' (Psalm 45:11) and who am I to compare myself to anybody else?

In all reality, I don't want anybody to like or love me for my looks, especially a boy, but more importantly because of my heart and that Christ would truly shine through me. That I would radiate a light that can only come from Him.

To love and accept somebody merely for their physical appearance is by far one of the most shallow things to do in life. And not only shallow, but it is a sin according to God's Word, check out James 2.

I want to be a person that not only attracts people because of the light of Jesus Christ living in me, but I want to be attracted to those people, too. And, in my short twenty-three years of living, I can name a handful of people that have truly shined the light of Christ. It's just so inviting, and unmistakable. It is contagious!

That is what I was taught from that lie. To no longer compare myself with every pretty girl in the universe, but to truly strive to have that beauty flowing out of me despite what I may or may not look like.

You may be the girl that has posters all over her room and wished you looked just like said poster. My encouragement to you is to take it all down, and start replacing it with truth. The longer you look at those posters, the more you will be disappointed. Our God is a redeeming God and He can redeem your mind! And sister, I pray that you let Him. It doesn't happen overnight (not that it can't!) but it takes patience, perseverance and some serious time in the Word and in prayer.

With that said, I want to share with you three things that are mind boggling to me. We all know that photo shop is our friend and that it can do magical things in pictures but, I am here to tell you that photo shop is every models best friend. It truly does wonders!

Check out this website and this website to see the touch-ups that have occurred to produce the perfect girl you feel that you need to become. Sometimes I want to scream when I see these things because of what it is doing to each of our minds. It's all fake!

I'll be honest with you and tell you that as I have refreshed these websites time and time again the past few days, I've had a weight taken off me (no pun intended!) and burden that has been lifted that I no longer need to have the perfect hair, perfect teeth, or perfect body. There is no such thing as perfect! Praise the Lord that the one true perfect thing, if we are in Christ, resides in us.

Thirdly, take one minute, literally, to watch this clip that Dove produced. I do love Dove and their campaign for Real Beauty! Keep it up, Dove!

And lastly, I pray that each of you, myself included, would honestly start replacing each of these lies with Truth and that you would be the kind of girl that is so inviting because of your pure heart and love for Jesus. Let His face shine upon you, sister!

Love,
Lindsee

DIVE '09

2009-02-23T13:45:00.001-08:00

Hi girls! I have been such a bad blogger as of late. However, between both DIVE retreats, Planet Wisdom and Student Life, we have had plenty to do around here that has kept me busy, busy.

So, with that said, I want to hear from you!

Whether you went to Planet Wisdom with Jr. High or Student Life:Live Love, I want to know what was your favorite part about it?

I will share mine here. Forgive me in advance though, because Student Life is more fresh on my mind since it ended yesterday, so I may have more to say about it, but I also loved Planet Life and the Word that was taught there, too. So, just humor me!

At Planet Wisdom I loved when Mark Matlock talked about the signs of a wise man, and the signs of an un-wise man. Since then, I have pondered them over and over again in my heart and looked back at my notes constantly asking myself if I truly have the qualities of a wise man. Unfortunately, more often than not, I tend to lean more to the "un-wise" man qualities. Sad, I know, but it is something I can work on! That was probably my favorite and most memorable part of Planet Wisdom. Of course, besides the fact that I got to hang out with some awesome 8th grade girls who gave me a couch bed all to myself because they didn't like the sheets or the comforter that had to go on it. They cracked me up!

This past weekend, our High School DIVE retreat spent with Student Life and Francis Chan absolutely blew me away. The whole theme to "Live Love" hit home with most of us. I think we realized that we do a whole lot of living for ourselves and not serving other people. Sad, but so very true.

It is almost too soon to even talk about what I learned because I still need time to process and truly think about it, but the part that stands out in my mind right now was the fact that the Spirit did a work in the student's lives to move them to action instead of talk. That was the neatest thing to watch! I was so neat to see how fired up the students were about going to serve downtown and actually minister to the homeless.

It was especially sweet to watch some of my Junior girls go door to door to collect items to take downtown by telling each home what we were doing and what we had been learning. Some people were so gracious! I was so proud of them.

So, I want to hear from you! What was your favorite part of your DIVE weekend? Or, what was one thing that the Lord really showed you or spoke to you specifically about? I can't wait to hear your answers.

Love,
Lindsee

Weekend O' Fun

2009-01-30T08:57:00.001-08:00

Hey there, sweet things! I just wanted to remind you of a few things going on this weekend. I will deem it the Weekend O' Fun.

First off, tonight is Jr. High BLAB! Our high school BLAB went great on Monday night, so I am hoping to see most of your precious faces there tonight! And girls, you don't want to miss the chocolate. Always know there will be chocolate at any girl event where I am involved. Chocolate is my love language, sisters. You will always win my heart by bringing me chocolate. I'm not sayin' I need it, but still.

The address for Mrs. Deschamps house is below so just have your mom or dad google it and it should give you pretty clear directions on how to get there.

Secondly, for the high school girls, PLEASE REMEMBER THAT DIVE REGISTRATION ENDS THIS SUNDAY! There is going to be a parent meeting right after church at 12:30, so if you haven't registered yet, you can do so either before than online, or at the meeting. However, please, please, please sign up. Y'all, it is going to be a great retreat. We ALL need to hear about how to "Live Love!" You will not want to miss out.

Lastly, also this Sunday is the Superbowl Party! Woo Hoo! Now, let me be real honest, I'm not one for much football. Football is not my love language. At all. However, next to chocolate, my other love language is being with people. People like you. So if you're thinking that football really isn't your thing, either, come anyway, hang out, eat chocolate and laugh with me and undoubtedly we will have us some Sunday Superbowl Fun! We will have a handout with more details for you on Sunday so be watching for that.

And folks, did I forget to mention the crazy, hilarious commercials? Need I say more?

Love you girls like crazy! Hope to see your faces many times this weekend. And I totally mean that.

Lindsee

Are You Coming?

2009-01-26T10:57:00.000-08:00

Girls! I just wanted to remind you that the first BLAB happens tonight at 6:30. I so hope I get to see many of your sweet faces there. And, tonight is just for the high school girls. Friday night we will have our first Jr. High BLAB! Can't wait! See you at Staja's house at 6:30!

BLAB

2009-01-12T09:56:00.000-08:00

Girls, get excited for our first ever once a month Girl's Bible Study, BLAB.

Before you get all ancy wondering what exactly it is and what we will be doing, please allow me the privilege to answer some of your questions before you even ask them.

First off, it is only going to be once a month. We all know the craziness that is our schedules, so I want to make this a practical, doable bible study for both you and me. We all need to stay sane!

I am going to try and keep it the last week of every month so that we have a time frame to remember it by. Jr. High and High School will meet on different nights. For right now, High School will meet the last Monday night of every month, and Jr. High will meet the last Friday of every month. Of course, we will switch it up every now and then, too so that the High School girls can meet on a Friday during some months.

The first date set for High School is Monday, January 26th and the first date for Jr. High will be Friday, January 30th. So, go on ahead and mark your calenders now! I don't have an exact place yet, but the time will be from 6:30 - 8:30 pm. However, as months go on, I would love to do the bible study and then just have fun, hang out, watch a movie time with you girls. No worries, though, you will get that information ahead of time.

BLAB really is a negative connotation, meaning to gossip, however, I think we can turn it around and talk about the truth of God's Word. And boy oh boy am I excited! As girls, we all know how much we can talk, so I think this will be good for us!

I plan on leading it most times, but, I would also like to bring in different people to teach us also, because we all know how fun it is to have guests!

So, that's BLAB for you in a nutshell.

This is my personal invitation for you to please come. I would absolutely be so thrilled to see each of your darling faces there. Seriously! And don't think for one minute I don't realize when someone isn't there. Girls, I am a detailed person, I notice when one of you is absent. I promise.

Also, if there is anything specific you want to BLAB about, let me know and I will work something out. I so want this to be a relevant bible study for y'all! I want your hearts and minds to be renewed through His Word.

He is so good, girls. Believe that today. Trust Him. Love Him. He is loving you right back!

Well, I am off to grab some lunch and then spend the rest of my afternoon in a meeting. It is so much fun being a grown up!

Lindsee

A New Year

2009-01-07T14:15:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year, sweet girls! How was your New Years? What did you do? Anything exciting that is worth sharing with the rest of us? I went to one of my friends house and rang in the New Year over there with some old college buddies. I had a good time, but boy oh boy was I tired. How sad is that? I promise I am not getting too old to have fun, though.

Anyway, I am so grateful for a new year, a new start, however, I am so grateful that we get a new start every day. Every morning. (Lam.3:22-23) If we didn't get a new start every morning, I would be completely sunk. I need that new start. And Praise the Lord we get it!

With that said, I am not too huge on new years resolutions. I don't know, I guess I know I'll blow it and end up letting myself down, so I just don't even try. I'd rather have a new day resolution every day and try and stick to that, which in my opinion, is much more doable. Sometimes I have to stick to a minute by minute resolution. You know what I mean?

However, this year has been a little different. No, I didn't make up a list of resolutions, but I have committed to do one thing, and that is start memorizing scripture intentionally. I have committed to memorize 24 scriptures this year, which is two a month. Y'all, do you know how easy that is? My mind is a hot mess and the only way to get it under control is to fill it with truth. To meditate on that truth and to believe the truth.

I was challenged by a group of ladies to do it, so I took the challenge. I think it is a wonderful resolution that I can definitely stick to. I don't plan on giving up any time soon. Actually right now I am thoroughly enjoying it. It has been so good for me.

So, here is my challenge to you:

Would you like to join me on the memorization journey? Girls, at your young age you could benefit greatly from this. Truly anybody can benefit from doing such a thing and hiding God's word in your heart, but if you start doing this now and continue doing it throughout life, think about how extremely blessed your sweet little minds would be. They would be flooded with truth. Oh Lord, please flood our minds with your truth!

I am not asking you to memorize two scriptures a month, I am only asking that you would consider memorizing ONE a month with me. Each month I'll share the scriptures I am learning with you, and you can either memorize the same ones as me, or you can pick your own. Totally up to you! However, I am very serious about this. I really want our minds to be bathed in scripture. I am totally committed to it and am asking if you would be committed, also. If so, either send me an email or leave me a comment telling me you want to so I can hold you accountable to it and so that I can hear what scriptures you have chosen to memorize. We can encourage one another through this!

What I have done is I have bought a spiral note card set and am writing the scriptures I am going to memorize in that, and then I am carrying it with me everywhere I go, that way during any down time, I can pull it out and look at it. That is really all you have to do!

The passage I am memorizing right now is Isaiah 26:3-4. It is at the bottom of this post!

So, this is my challenge to you, sweet girls. That we would let the Lord invade our minds and hearts.

I love you all and am so happy to start a fresh, new year with you. It is my absolutely honor to serve you girls! Let's make 2009 a year to remember.

Are The Holiday's Really Almost Over?

2008-12-29T09:02:00.000-08:00

GIRLS! How was your Christmas? I hope and pray that is was filled with so much love, and of course, no holiday is complete unless much laughter is involved, too.

So, I am very curious as to what you all did for Christmas this year, and what you got. So, why don't you leave a comment (and don't forget to add your name if you are posting as an anonymous blogger) and tell me your favorite gift this year. Girls, this is no contest, and it doesn't have to be something big at all, just tell me your favorite gift you received.

For instance, I got 3 pairs of socks in my stocking that I absolutely love. They are long socks that I can wear with my boots, which thrills my little heart because I didn't have any. Yes, I did get some other fun things, but I loved my socks.

So, spill the beans, what did you get?

Well girls, I am back at work, so I better concentrate, but I just wanted to pop in and say hello.

Be looking for a post real soon about something I would love for all of us to do this coming year. It is something I am personally going to do, and I would love for y'all to join me in the journey! Want to know what it is? Well, be sure to come back within the next few days.

Love you girls dearly and hope you all have a wonderful week off of school. Let's go see a movie! Any takers? :)

Lindsee

Christmas Traditions

2008-12-19T12:17:00.000-08:00

Hello, sweet girls! Well, I am hoping that by the time you read this, you will be DONE with school! I am so happy for y'all and know you are so ready for a break. It has been a crazy semester, hasn't it?!

I just wanted to pop in here for a second and see what kind of traditions you and your family might have at Christmas time?

I would tell you some of mine, however, I can't really think of one particular thing we do every year.

Normally though, if we are in Houston, we go to the Christmas Eve service here at church and then just chill out at home afterwards. Also, if we are in Houston, we celebrate Christmas day with some of our good friends. It is always a wonderful time.

When we go to Colorado for Christmas (which is every few years!) we have a completely different schedule. We are always hopping from house to house to see everybody.

So, what are some of your traditions? Let's hear them!

And if I don't get back on here, or see you before Christmas, I hope that you have a very, Merry Christmas! I love you, sisters!

Lindsee

A Christmas Survey

2008-12-10T13:04:00.000-08:00

Hello, precious girls! I saw this survey on another blog and thought it was really fun, so I thought I would post my answers on this blog! I absolutely LOVE Christmas. It is by far my favorite holiday. (Next runner up is Thanksgiving!) So, I thought it would be fun for us to share a little bit about our Christmas's. Feel free to leave your answers in a comment. I would LOVE to hear them!

1. Fresh Tree or Fake Tree
Fake (As much as I love the smell of a fresh one, I am completely allergic…as is the rest of the fam!)

2. Favorite Ornament
I have 2. For some reason I am completely enamored with this gumball ornament we’ve had since I was little, nothing special about it, I just like it. Then we have this Santa you press and it sings to you. Always a joy!

3. Favorite Christmas Song
"Jesus Born on This Day" (Either by Mariah Carey or Avalon) , “Ring the Bells” by Travis Cottrell, “All I Want for Christmas” by Mariah Carey

4. Favorite Tradition
Driving around looking at lights (Especially in Prestonwood!), all while enjoying some Amy Grant or Mariah Carey Christmas in the CD player, and sipping on some Hot Chocolate. This is especially fun when I’m with my girlfriends.

5. Favorite Gift Ever Received
When Rollerblades first came out, both my brother and I really wanted some. However, they were quite pricey so my parents told us to not expect them because it was out of the budget. So, Christmas morning we were completely surprised when there was rollerblades for each of us sitting by our stocking. Needless to say, we rollerbladed the rest of the day!

6. Favorite Christmas Meal
Turkey, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, fruit salad, rolls, cheese ball and crackers and a chocolate pie to finish it off.

7. Favorite Christmas Cookie
Pillsbury sugar cookies you can decorate on your own! They are so soft!

8. Favorite Place To Be
Colorado with the rest of our extended family!

9. Favorite Memory
The Christmas Eve that it snowed in Houston is pretty high up there, however, last Christmas in Colorado it snowed ALL day. It was indeed a very white Christmas, and the only day it snowed the whole time we were there!

10. Favorite Christmas Movie
My top 3 favorites are: “Elf”, “Christmas Vacation” and “A Christmas Story” H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S!

So, what about you? Merry "Early" Christmas!

Lindsee

A Message from John Krasinski

2008-12-05T09:35:00.000-08:00

Also known as Jim Halpert from The Office.

On our flight home from Mexico on Tuesday, my reading material consisted of People Magazine.

I came across a mini article on John (we're totally on a first name basis) and my excitement about the magazine and this actor rose to a new level.

They were asking him simple questions and when asked about his home town, this is what he said.

"I miss the East Coast," says the Massachusetts native. "When the girls are bundled up, it's extremely se*y."

WHEN THEY ARE BUNDLED UP! Not when they're in skimpy swim suits or about to loose all of their business out of a shirt, but when they are bundled up.

I'm not to sure how many of you are smitten over him, but I am. I mean, really y'all, to hear that Jim from the office thinks that a girl is more attractive bundled up, means a lot. Most men, especially in the Hollywood business, would never say that.

Girls, you and I can totally learn from this. Most times we think that the only to get a guy is to dress immodestly, I beg to differ. If we want a boy that respects us and treats us how we should be treated, than we don't want the ones that want us for our body. That is totally a trap! And, if we do dress like that, we aren't doing our brothers in Christ a favor, we are only making them stumble and sin.

If you feel the tug on your heart, or your palms are sweating because you've fallen into this trap, I would do a heart check! I've had to do a heart check a few times myself because I so used to be the one to wear short shorts and spaghetti straps and thought all was well. Little did I know (however, consciously I did know), I wasn't doing anyone a favor.

I just pray that we have young godly men who rise up and think the same thing and that the young godly girls would listen and heed the wise advice and wait for a man that respects them and their bodies.

So, as if we didn't love Jim enough, don't you think he's just precious?! I do.

Do you want to be attractive? Then bundle up, sweet girls! ;)

Love,

Lindsee

I Haven't Forgotten About You

2008-11-19T13:04:00.000-08:00

Hey sweet girls!

Wow, I can't believe that retreat is 0-v-e-r! I feel like the weekend flew by! How about you?

Clearly, you can see that I have been the worst blog administrator ever the past month, but the retreat planning took precedence over the blog. Which is completely sad, but true.

One of our ladies took pictures the whole time during the retreat and is going to get me a CD of them soon, so, once I get those my plan is to put them on the blog for all to see!

However, while we are waiting, I want to hear from YOU!

Tell me what your favorite part about the retreat was! Did you just love the Shelly and Abby? Would you want them to come back? How about the Q&A, did we answer your questions? Tell me about your small group times, did you think they were beneficial?

Girls, I am so excited to hear what you thought about the retreat. In my biased opinion, I think it went great...but I am more concerned what you thought!

So, check in and let me know!

Love you girls dearly! Hope you have had a fabulous, restful week!

(And hopefully I'll be back to blogging again!)

Lindsee

REGISTRATION STARTS TODAY!

2008-10-05T20:34:00.000-07:00

GIRLS, CAN YOU TELL MY EXCITEMENT BY MY ALL CAPS LETTERING?!!

Well, in all seriousness, our REAL girls retreat registration started TODAY!

Please, please, please register as soon as you can so that it is ON YOUR CALENDER! If you have nothing for that weekend, don't even think twice about it. Sign up, NOW. Go. See you later.

However, if you do have something for that weekend, even if it's just for 2 hours, STILL REGISTER and just leave when you need to, but let us know that you are leaving for a period of time when you do register.

Also, INVITE YOUR FRIENDS!!!!! Invite all of them. They are ALL welcome. I mean, what would happen if we could get 100 girls. I mean, I know we can't, but if y'all all invited ONE FRIEND, it COULD happen. Oh, the possibilities.

Girls, the cost is only $30. Not bad for all that will go on. IT WILL BE SUCH AN EXCITING WEEKEND...AND I CANNOT WAIT FOR IT TO GET HERE!

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER ONLINE!

OR, REGISTER ON WEDNESDAY'S OR SUNDAY'S THROUGH NOV. 9TH BY FILLING OUT A REGISTRATION FORM AND PUTTING IT IN A TOOLBOX!

I absolutely cannot wait girls. So, don't miss out! REGISTER TODAY!!

Love you all so very much. Like more than you know!

Lindsee

Commitment

2008-10-01T08:18:00.000-07:00

So, who has been crazy busy out the wazoo?! That would be me...and probably you, too. Hence why the blog has been on hold for a while. But, alas, hopefully now I can really focus and start really using this thing, and hopefully, you will get in the routine to check it! :)

It is a commitment I made to you long ago, so I am going to keep it.

Speaking of commitments, I wanted to share something with y'all that I shared with my 2:42 group.

Girls, most of you are in a 2:42 group, and hopefully you have begun meeting. I know for some of you, you didn't even want to do a small group and your parents signed you up and now you are forced to do it, or maybe you are so busy that your brain can't stop 2 seconds to even think about 2:42, or maybe your group has changed the meeting time or day, and it seems like an inopportune time and you feel like not doing it this semester.

Here is my challenge, sweet friends, and I am so hoping you learn this lesson sooner than later, but know that 2:42 is a commitment that you made to your leader and to the Lord. I can P-R-O-M-I-S-E you that time spent in God's word is N-E-V-E-R time wasted. Ever. Ever. Ever. I know you may think you are waisting time and that you could be doing something more productive, but do you not realize that HIS WORD is EVERYTHING?! That HE is everything. That when you are solid in Him and His Word everything else falls into place. Sisters, he wants you to bring Him every worry, stress, fear, doubt and whatever else you may think is more important, or should take the place of him.

Take a look at Isaiah 55, out of The Message. His Word will NEVER return empty.

"Hey there! All who are thirsty, come to the water! Are you penniless? Come anyway—buy and eat! Come, buy your drinks, buy wine and milk. Buy without money—everything's free! Why do you spend your money on junk food, your hard-earned cash on cotton candy? Listen to me, listen well: Eat only the best, fill yourself with only the finest. Pay attention, come close now, listen carefully to my life-giving, life-nourishing words. I'm making a lasting covenant commitment with you, the same that I made with David: sure, solid, enduring love. I set him up as a witness to the nations, made him a prince and leader of the nations, And now I'm doing it to you: You'll summon nations you've never heard of, and nations who've never heard of you will come running to you Because of me, your God, because The Holy of Israel has honored you."

"Seek God while he's here to be found, pray to him while he's close at hand. Let the wicked abandon their way of life and the evil their way of thinking. Let them come back to God, who is merciful, come back to our God, who is lavish with forgiveness. "

"I don't think the way you think. The way you work isn't the way I work." God's Decree. "For as the sky soars high above earth, so the way I work surpasses the way you work, and the way I think is beyond the way you think. Just as rain and snow descend from the skies and don't go back until they've watered the earth, Doing their work of making things grow and blossom, producing seed for farmers and food for the hungry, So will the words that come out of my mouth not come back empty-handed. They'll do the work I sent them to do, they'll complete the assignment I gave them. " Isaiah 55: 1-11

Girls, did you see that? He is making a commitment with us. WITH US! I feel that it is so important that we make a commitment to HIM. And boy oh boy is HE MORE than worthy of our commitment. He's more worthy than anything else will EVER be. Even your future husband, which is so far away.

I do realize that you may not be able to attend every meeting, or do all your bible study homework. I do realize that you have made other commitments, also, that are very important to you and your family. I do realize that you will not live a perfectly committed life to Him here on earth, none of us will. But, please know that your commitment to church, to 2:42 will never be waisted. It will only be used for good.

So, I challenge you, when you feel like you have no more time left in the world and don't fell AT ALL like going to 2:42, or anything church related, that's all the more reason to GO! Satan wants you to think you have no more time. Don't believe that lie. The Lord will bless you for your commitment and for going. You may not realize that now, but down the road you will be so very thankful. Because remember, The Word will never return empty. You will always get something in return.

He is up to something heavenly, that is so much bigger than you, it is huge.

So as the Gulf Coast Regional Blood Center always says...

Commit for life!

Real (A Girls Retreat)

2008-09-26T15:05:00.000-07:00

*To enlarge the picture, just click on it! Get SO excited. And don't forget to grab one of these flyers on Sunday. AND, invite your friends!!!

Post Script

2008-09-11T17:12:00.000-07:00

P.S. I didn't mention, but for real know that everyone would appreciate prayers for the hurricane. Pray that the Lord, in His awesome mighty power, would dwindle this huge storm down to just a rain shower. He is MORE than capable of doing just that. Especially pray the people from Galveston, and the people who had to evacuate. It's hard to leave your home in the dust, not sure of what will be left when you return.

And while your praying, remember to pray for all of those that are dealing with the memory of 9/11 today. I know we all remember it all too well, but pray for the ones that were directly affected. People are hurting today all over. Anniversary's of tragedy's like this, are never easy!

Okay, I'm out for real this time! Gonna go chow down on some yummy home grilled burgers!

Lindsee

Hurrican Ike and Everything Alike

2008-09-11T16:56:00.000-07:00

I don't really know what else is like Hurricane Ike, but it rhymed, and I like rhymes. But, I don't like Ike. Another rhyme, yes I know.

Anyway, it's Thursday evening and I am already bored. Oh goodness, it's going to be a long weekend. Especially if we loose power, which will most likely happen.

It has been forever since I've blogged, but, we've been busy around the office and plus we spent last weekend in Galveston! I am SO thankful that our retreat wasn't supposed to be this weekend. We would've been so disappointed, because by now it would have been cancelled.

Speaking of Galveston, did you go?! I did, and had an absolute blast. If you did go, what was your favorite part. Since my family wasn't with me, I am sure the trip was a little different for me, but my favorite part was Schlitterbahn and the band. I've never been to this Schlitterbahn, but I thoroughly enjoyed my time there, and even conquered some of my fears.

Y'all, I rode the 2 drop-straight-down rides, Cliffhanger and Rohr! Every part of my body was shaking as I was walking up the stairs on both rides, but once I actually did the ride, it was an absolute thrill. I don't think I've ever experienced so much of an adrenaline rush. (Well, I'm sure I have, but I like to make things dramatic sometimes!) Anyway, we spent Saturday afternoon there, and even though it took everything out of me, and I was absolutely exhausted, I loved every part of it. Really, I loved every part of the weekend, so I hope that if you went you did, too.

Well girls, at the moment my brain can't think of anything to write about. I am sure I will be back blogging this weekend about random things, because, well frankly, like I said earlier, Ike has already brought boredom to this sweet place.

My brain is also confused, because this huge storm is coming, yet at the moment it is bright and sunny, nice weather, my dad is grilling some burgers, and I am so ashamed to say, but he is also watering the yard as I type. Yes, he is watering. Don't ask, I don't understand.

I guess this is just the calm before the storm. Thank you, Jesus for little brothers who come home from college to keep their older sisters entertained during a hurricane.

Hunker down, sisters! And let me know what you're plans are regarding the hurricane!

Love, love, love!

Lindsee

Save the Date

2008-08-29T12:10:00.000-07:00

What: First ever TSMAC girls retreat :)

When: November 14-15!!

Who: ALL Jr. High and High School girls (You can invite as many friends as you want, too!)

Where: HERE @ CBC

Theme: R.E.A.L (Respect, Encouragement, Acceptance & Love)

Cost: To Be Determined

Girls, you DO NOT want to miss out on this awesome event! I am so excited I could bust! The planning has already begun and I know the Lord has huge things in store for this retreat. And really, what could be better than getting together for a weekend with the best girls in the USA?!

So, mark your calender, save the date, do whatever you need to do to get yourself here! I am already praying for each and every one of you!

And seriously girls, let your friends know too! They are all invited. The more the merrier!

Love you all! Now...go...save the date! (And if you already have something this weekend...reschedule!) :)

And no worries...we'll give you PLENTY more details as we get things set in stone!

Lindsee

Coulrophobia

2008-08-28T21:57:00.000-07:00

A fear of clowns.

I just self diagnosed myself with coulrophobia because I have an abnormal fear of clowns. I have my whole life. This is nothing new, now I just have a professional name for it.

Wikopedia gave me this thrilling definition...

"Coulrophobia is an abnormal or exaggerated fear of clowns. The term is common, but it does not appear to be used in psychology. [1]It is not uncommon among children, but is also sometimes found in teenagers and adults as well. Sufferers sometimes acquire a fear of clowns after having a bad experience with one personally, or seeing a sinister portrayal of one in the media. A design study carried out by the University of Sheffield found that children are frightened by clown-themed décor in hospitals.[2] This fear can arise from seeing a clown in person, or in pictures. "

You have to know that NONE of these things ever happened to me. I guess I don't like them because I don't understand there purpose. Why would you willingly dress up in huge clothes, where abnormally huge shoes, paint your face white and walk around at events where little children are bound to be entertained by you? I have no answers.

And I have no clue. I never want to be a clown.

And I sure don't like encountering them.

What is something silly you are afraid of? Do you have an odd phobia?

Lindsee

The First Day of School

2008-08-25T09:45:00.000-07:00

August 25th.

I thought this day would never come. The very first day of school that I don't have to go to! I don't say this to rub it in your face, but to encourage you.

Girls, I know for some of you going back to school is a drag. I know for some of you, you couldn't be more excited. Personally I really did enjoy school! No, I didn't enjoy the early mornings, but once I was there, it wasn't so bad.

My charge to you is to truly think about what you want this year to look like! Do you want to be someone who blends in with everyone else, or do you want to be different? Bold?

Girls, if you are in Christ Jesus, you have the holy spirit IN you. Do you know what this means? Girls, you have the POWER of Jesus Christ in you to make a difference in your school! To truly be that girl that everyone sees and wants to know what's so different about you. Oh, that Jesus would shine through you!

This doesn't mean you have to be an outcast. It means that you just have the power to love your peers the way that Jesus loves. And ALL of your peers for that matter, not just your favorites.

It means that you have the power to accept anybody and everybody as a friend the way that Jesus did.

It means that you have to the power to encourage your peers the way the Jesus encourages us!

Girls, this is huge!

During my Jr. High and High School years, I definitely didn't do this to it's full potential. Yes, I was the "good girl" and what not, but I definitely didn't act as Jesus would at times. A lot of times I wouldn't even acknowledge that I was a christian around certain people just to that I would be accepted by the cool crowd. Do you want to know how much satisfaction that brought me? NONE!

Absolutely none.

Do you want to know how many of those people I still talk to? NONE! The cool factor doesn't even matter girls. I so wish I knew that back in the day!

Anyway, I am so hoping that right now at exactly 12:00 pm you are having a FABULOUS first day of school.

For some of you, you are entering a brand new school and are scared out of your mind, some of you it's your first time in public school and you have no idea what to think. Some of you are freshman in high school or college and everything new is more than exciting to you. (And we all know your excited about the boys...let's just get honest here!) And some of you are Seniors and you are so ready to get this party started.

Wherever you are, whatever school you are at, I am praying, praying, praying for you!

I always LOVED the first day of school, but was always scared out of my every livin' mind, too.

ENJOY today, and even if you feel alone where you are, know that you are not! God is with you. I know it sounds cheesy, but I so hope it brings you peace of mind.

Love you girls like crazy! Let this school year be an amazing one! Can't wait to hear all about your first day!

Lindsee

That Girl

2008-08-20T14:08:00.000-07:00

The other day after I got home from work, I was relaxing on the couch just flipping channels. Normally there is nothing good on when I get home, and really, I'm not much of a TV watcher, but doing this relaxes me sometimes.

Anyway, as I was flipping through I stopped on Entertainment Tonight. Yes, I have to admit, I like this show. Don't judge me. Sometimes I am just intrigued by it.

Anyway, they were doing a story on a recent Hollywood breakup. One that all of y'all know probably all too well! For the sake of not gossiping (even though we don't really know them, it's still gossip!) I am not going to share their names, but it's probably not to hard to guess.

They first interviewed the boy, and he shared his thoughts on the recent breakup, and then they interviewed the girl. Of course, they both said what everyone else would say, that they were okay, and think this is for the better, but then the girl said something that completely caught my attention, and also made my jaw drop.

After announcing that she was okay, the girl proceeded to say, "I just love being the girl that no one can have, but everybody wants!"

What?!

Girls, I seriously didn't know what to say. I mean, she clearly knows she's hot stuff. But then I thought about it. How many of us think this way? Do we know we're "hot stuff?" Do we act like the girl that no one can have, but that everybody wants?

I am so afraid that we do. Whether intentionally or not. I am afraid that by our actions, the way we dress, and the things we say sends a message to the boys we know, our brothers in Christ, that says we are the girl they want, but they just can't have.

It's so sad.

I once heard a mom say to tell those girls that when they wear short shorts, or tight/low cut shirts, that they just don't know what we're doing to the boys.

I beg to differ. I think the reason we do wear those kinds of things, and act certain ways is so that we do get that kind of attention. I know it's hard to swallow, and something I don't say lightly, but I think it's true. Why else would you wear such things? We KNOW what we're doing to boys.

My challenge to you is to really examine what kind of girl you are. Are you one that everyone wants but can't have? Or are you lily among the thorns? Set apart? A girl that is holy because HE is holy? I hope and pray that you are the latter.

Girls, true and lasting satisfaction can only be found in Christ Jesus. He loves you with such a pure and unconditional love. He doesn't love you based on how pretty you are. He doesn't love you based on what you do for Him. He doesn't love you because you love Him. He loves you because you are you. Period.

Be the kind of girl that is so lost in His love that a boy has to truly seek the Lord to find you. Oh, that you would not settle. Find your satisfaction in Him. Other things will only last for a moment, but He will satisfy forever!

I pray this for my life, too!

Love you girls so much! Run after Him today. HE WANTS YOU! Be a GODLY girl, not just a good christian girl.

Lindsee

A Blog Makeover

2008-08-15T11:35:00.000-07:00

Hi girls! Do you like our new blog look?!

I absolutely love it! It took me like 10.6 hours to actually decide on one I like because there were so many that were absolutely precious!

So, this is just a shout out and thank you to the Cutest Blog on the Block, because I am pretty sure we now have the cutest blog on the block. :)

Anyway, so sorry I have been so blog absent this week. I have been busy house sitting...and well, watching the Olympics. Currently my favorites are swimming, diving and gymnastics. You can see my eyes glued to the television during any of these competitions. Don't judge me, though. Normally I am not a T.V. guru.

What are your favorite competitions to watch during the Olympics? Let me know!

Well, girls, I'm off to lunch! It's 1:39 and my tummy is growling.

Have a FABULOUS Friday and enjoy your weekend!

Love you all dearly!

Lindsee

Q & A

2008-08-07T09:12:00.000-07:00

Here is a typical question to start you off... what is your most memorable embarrassing moment?

Well, I am not one to get embarrassed that often. Normally, if something embarrassing does happen, I just laugh it off and move on with life. That's why I can't really think of anything embarrassing. However, I do have one slightly gross/embarrassing story.

When I was in HCC (Houston Children's Chorus) back in the day...like Jr. High, we used to have Saturday morning rehearsals. Normally before these rehearsals we stopped at a donut shop and picked us up some breakfast. This one particular morning I got 2 donuts and Sunny Delight. I had never had this combination before, normally I just got water. So, I ate my donuts and drank my Sunny D. Later on during rehearsal I started not feeling too well. I mean, it was getting to the point where I could barely stand up. My stomach was turning. But I had no idea what was wrong. At one point we stood up to sing a song, and RIGHT when the song started, on cue, I puked in front of everyone. (That was the first time I had thrown up my whole life! So I was all out of sorts.) I then started to walk out of rehearsal, obviously, and as I was walking out I just kept throwing up. Of course, the minute I got to the actual bathroom, I was done. Needless to say, we called my parents and I left rehearsal early. To this day I still have yet to eat donuts and sunny delight. Donuts alone? Yes. Sunny Delight? Never again.

Little known fact: I have only thrown up twice my whole life. This time, and a time after I went to the dentist. (Nice!) It is actually a fear of mine. I HATE throwing up. Normally if I feel like I need to, I will talk myself out of it! How many of you can beat that?!

Are you married? Do you have any kids??

Nope. Not married. And nope. No kids! However, I do hope one day to be married and have kids. I hope and pray for that everyday! But, like every girl should do, I am waiting on the Lord! No, it's not easy, and no, I am not even dating anybody. But, His timing is perfect so I am trusting that He will provide for me when HE feels it's the right time. Not when I feel is the right time, which would honestly be sooner than later! (And just for the record, I've never actually dated anybody. But, we'll keep that post for a later time!)

What's your favorite song (secular)???

Hmmm. This changes often. Currently, I am enjoying some Colbie Caillat and some Beatles. Out of those artists my favs are Realize and Bubbly from Colbie Caillat and I cannot even begin to tell you a favorite from the Beatles because there are FAR to many to pick from. But, I am also loving Viva la Vida by Coldplay at the moment. It's way catchy. Truly, the list could go on and on. So, I'll stop there. I am a music freak. (But I would hate to leave out James Taylor!) Okay, really stopping.

Do you think your car is quit? hahaha i mean cute!

You girls make me laugh. Yes, I think my car is cute, and yes I am still loving it! Don't lie...you know you are too!

What is your favorite ice cream?

Oh bless. You've opened a whole new can of worms here. This list, along with the music list, could go on and on and on...

So, I will list my favorites (notice the s at the end...this will be a plural answer!)

In no particular order:

Cookies n' Cream by Blue Bell
Mint Chocolate Chip by Blue Bell
Slow Churned French Silk by Dreyer's
Almond Delight by Connie's Custard
Texas Tornado by Connie's Custard

And yes, I know the last two are custard, but it's still ice cream in my book, and no, you cannot buy it at the store, you have to go to Connie's Custard to get that ice cream. It's a good thing I only live across the street from it! And if you've never had Connie's...go...now. Come back and read the post later. It is heavenly.

Kevin's your brother right? Do you have any other siblings?

Yes, Kevyn is my brother. And yes, he spells his name KEVYN, just like I spell my name LINDSEE. And yes, we have an older brother, BRIEN. Who also spells his name weird, too. Don't blame the name spelling on us, though, you can thank my parents. :)

I am the only girl in the middle of two boys and absolutely LOVE it. We actually all love each other, too. I mean yes, we had our days. I'll never forget standing at the top of the stairs screaming Brien's name because he was annoying me so bad. (That's when we were younger. A long time ago. I haven't done that in SO LONG. And it really didn't even happen that often because I'm not one to get mad or annoyed fast...it takes a lot of annoyance to get me to that point!) But, we all get along fabulous now and enjoy each others company! Especially on vacation when we have to entertain ourselves, and entertain ourselves we do. Brien is 26, I am 23 and Kev, our baby is 18 and heading off to college. I love my brothers! And even though I've always wanted a sister, my brothers are enough for me now! Maybe the Lord will bless me with a sister-in-law one day! :)

Well girls, that's all I've got for you! If you have any other questions feel free to ask away.

Hope you all have a fabulous Thursday. I have GOT to get in the shower, because I am one hot mess right now!

Love you girls!

Lindsee

Edouard and Taco Cabana

2008-08-05T17:46:00.000-07:00

Girls, did you survive Edouard? I sure hope you did. Yours truly spent the rainy day at the office dreaming about my bed. I mean, really, who doesn't love taking a nap when the rain is beating on your window?! It can by far be some of the best sleep you can get!

Anyway, I got a lot done, but as of right now at 7:48 pm I am currently sitting on my nice comfy couch enjoying this quiet and uneventful evening. After such a crazy schedule lately I am enjoying this down time!

What did you do today to entertain yourself during the hurricane ? Anything exciting? Please tell me you enjoyed a nap on my behalf! :)

Anyway, back to more important things...food.

So, Sunday night after church I was really craving some Taco Cabana. Every now and then I have a hankering for some tortillas and cheese. It is a wonderful meal/snack.

I pulled through the drive thru and ordered my original: A dozen tortillas, 8 oz. of queso, and an 8 oz. cup of fajita chicken. (I get extras because inevitably when I get home the whole family decides they want some, too, so I know better now just to get enough to share the wealth!)

When I pulled up to the window, the man said, "So, why do you order this?

My response: "Well, I love dipping your tortillas in the cheese and every now and then, I want to throw some chicken in, too!"

Man: "Oh, okay. Well, I was just wondering because I've never seen anybody order that. You're the first!"

Y'all, I was shocked. I don't know about you, but during my high school days Taco Cabana (or Taco C as we called it) was THE hang out. We went there all the time. I really don't know why, probably because it was cheap and we ALL ordered tortillas and cheese. Back then, my order wasn't so foreign!

So, what do you order at Taco C? Do y'all even go there anymore? Do you order something that is on the menu? (And for the record, all the stuff I order IS on the menu!)

Well, girls. I'm off to warm up some leftover tortillas and cheese for dinner. Healthy, isn't it!

Love y'all!

Lindsee

P.S. Q&A answer post coming up...so if you have any last minute questions feel free to ask!

Bowling At It's Best

2008-07-31T21:55:00.000-07:00

Girls!! So, how did you do at bowling?! Can you believe I WON both of the games I played. Like seriously, I do not bowl. The Lord must have been on my side. :)

I PROMISE to get some Centrifuge pictures up. I am just in the middle of changing computers, so I have pictures here, there and everywhere! But, until then, here are some bowling pictures! Enjoy!

I hope you all have a fabulous weekend! I am visiting some of my college friends in Ft. Worth! There's just nothin' like some good ole' girl time.

AND, don't forget to check out the Mexico blog to see what's been going on this week while the high schoolers have been down there. They would sure appreciate your prayers, too!

Love you all!

Lindsee

CentriFUGE

2008-07-28T12:54:00.000-07:00

Well, girls! Can you believe that we are already back from camp?

So, how many of you are completely and utterly exhausted like I am? Goodness they kept us busy. But, as busy as they kept us, I hope you had an unbelievable time! I sure did. Walt did such an amazing job teaching us. That man is one gifted speaker and teacher. Don't you agree?

One thing (although I learned MANY things) that really stuck with me was just the fact that he kept stating that decisions don't happen at altars, they happen in hearts. (Yes, of course they can happen at altars, but decisions aren't limited to altars!) Girls, that is SO true. You don't have to be at camp to make any sort of decision for God. You can be at lunch with your family, in your room by yourself, you can be ANYWHERE, the important thing is that it's between you and the Lord. He wants and deserves to have your WHOLE heart. Not just little pieces of it. He wants every part of your being. Just like He says in the parable of the Pearl!

I know that in my life I tend to hold onto the things that I think I can handle, whether it be little or big, and I don't surrender them to Him. This week really challenged me to DAILY hand over every ounce of everything I hold onto!

I hope you were challenged as well!

So, you tell me! I have heard some of your stories from camp, and I have listened to some decisions that were made, but I want to hear more! I want to know how the Lord moved in your life.

Or, just tell me your favorite part about camp! It can be serious or funny!

I know I saw a TON of you laughing ALL THE TIME, so I KNOW there are stories to tell!

My favorite parts of camp were definitely the morning and night sessions. The worship and the teaching were incredible. I could barely wait till those times!

YOUR TURN!

Leave a comment telling me and the other girls either how you were challenged, a decision you made, something you learned, a funny story, or just simply your favorite thing about camp.

Love you girls so very much! And even though I didn't get to see and hang out with you as much as I hoped to, know that I had an absolute BLAST with y'all and it makes me very excited about some upcoming events!

Look for a "Camp in Pictures" post coming soon...(Because you KNOW we took some pictures!)

HUGS,

Lindsee

What Has 4 Eye's But Can't See?

2008-07-18T15:16:00.000-07:00

M-I-S-S-I-S-S-I-P-P-I

Who's ready for Centrifuge?!

Girls, are you just so excited? Because I am. David and I just finished up getting things ready here at the office to greet you all with a warm smile Monday morning at 4:30 AM!! Yes, it's early. Yes, we'll be sleepy. But, YES, you can sleep on the bus! And really, what bus ride have you been on that has not been a blast. We'll make this trip as fun as possible!

It is going to be an awesome week and I am so excited to get to spend it with y'all. Especially you girls!

Start praying for you and your friends. I am praying for y'all, too! Expect GREAT things!

And, have your camera's ready...I'll have mine in tow to capture those unforgettable moments! :)

Love you girls! Get some rest this weekend cause we all know that the week coming up will keep us busier than we could ever imagine.

Adios!

Lindsee

P.S. Remember to pack modest swimsuits and clothes! They'll be boys there. (Ew.)

Astros and Friendly Haven

2008-07-16T14:25:00.000-07:00

Ladies...

As you all know, we have had a plentiful amount of events this summer. (I say that like this summer is coming to an end! But it's not...so don't fear!) During these events, I have captured some precious moments (remember the characters, anybody?) on my sweet Cannon camera. That camera has blessed me indeed!

Of course, I only have a few on my work computer (I am growing that library slowly) so bear with me.

Here are some pictures from some of our most recent Sr. High events, the Astros game and Friendly Haven VBS! Enjoy!

Boys will be boys...

She has a BRIGHT idea!

I know he's not a girl...but check out my boss and your fearless leader!

In case you were wondering...we were dead cows. :(
And then sheep...

Fun songs for the little ones!

Much love, sweet friends!

Lindsee

Ask Away

2008-07-14T09:17:00.000-07:00

Hi, sweet girls!

I do apologize for the lack of activity on the blog lately, but last week was crazy busy with Friendly Haven VBS downtown that the High School peeps did. We did have fun though, and enjoyed some fellowship with some MIGHTY cute lil' ones all week. By the end of the week we were exhausted!

Anyway, I am back and hopefully on a more consistent basis!

With that said, this post is for YOU to ask me anything you want to know about me. It's a little "get to know me" post, if you will. I could list off a list of things you may not know about me, but I'd rather you ask, because it's just more fun that way! Plus, you may think of things that I might not think about.

So, for the next few days, even though I may post more, feel free to leave me a comment with anything you may want to know. It can be ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. All I ask is that you keep it appropriate! In a few days I will compile all of the questions and do a little Q&A post. It can be things like any favorites of mine, friendships, my college experience, high school and Jr. ?High days, family, or anything else you can think of.

I hope this is fun, girls!

Have a marvelous Monday!

Lots of love and many hugs your way!

Lindsee

Friendly Haven VBS

2008-07-07T07:46:00.000-07:00

Hi girls!

This is just a "friendly" reminder (no pun intended) that if you are helping out with VBS you need to be at the church by NOON to leave! It will be a fun time had by all...no doubt!

I hope to see all of your beautiful faces at least ONCE this week! Make me proud, girls, make me proud! Really, let's make HIM known and HIM proud!

And remember that HE is your JOY today!

J= Jesus First
O= Others Second
Y= Yourself Last

"I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete." John 15:11

"Be joyful always..." 1 Thessalonians 5:16

I love you,

Lindsee

It's YOUR Turn

2008-07-02T22:26:00.000-07:00

Happy Wednesday, Girls!

So, in just one short week I am going to be meeting with your fearless leaders to brainstorm some ideas for what this thing called "The Girls Ministry at Cypress" is going to look like. You know, things they would like to see happen, potential events, yada, yada, yada...

But, as I got to thinking, I realized that as much as they all love you, and as much as they have your best interest at heart...I want to hear from YOU! I mean, what would happen if we planned things that were absolutely B.O.R.I.N.G for you. I am trying to avoid that at all costs!

So, as we head into the end of summer (Gasp! Already?!) and start thinking about the fall, I want YOU to tell me some things you would love to see go on. What events do you think would be fun? Do you have any bible study ideas? Any weekly/monthly gathering ideas? Retreat ideas? I'm just throwing things out there!

Okay, put your thinking caps on and get to commenting!

Can't wait to hear your ideas and share them with the ladies!

Ready, Set, GO...

Lots of love,

Lindsee

Blogging 101

2008-07-01T12:03:00.000-07:00

Hi girls!

So, I think I've decided that I am more excited about this blogging thing than anyone, but that's OK. I'll have you all hooked in about a week! :)

I do realize, however, that some of you have never even seen a "blog" like this, so let me give you a quick rundown of some blogging basics.

Basically, it is just an online journal (as I said below) but I am excited to share with you girls many things on here, even what the Lord might be showing me. However, I don't want to be the only one talking on this thing. I would love some feedback. This is where you come in: feel free to post comments whenever you want, and don't feel silly about it! :)

How to post comments:

1) Scroll down to the bottom of the post and you will see a link that says "0 comments" or however many comments there might be. If you have a Google email account, or even a blog of your own you can sign into your own account in the lines provided and leave a comment. When you are done typing your comment, fill out the "Word Verification" box (this prevents spam), and then press "Publish" comment. Your comment should show up immediately to the left, if not, you have not been successful. At this point you should try again. Don't give up!

2) If you DO NOT have a Google account, or a Gmail account, do not fear. Anonymous people can leave comments, too! What you would do is type your comment in the box, then when you are done click on the "anonymous" choice at the bottom. You will also have to fill out the "word verification" box, but that is easy. Once you have filled out the word verification, click on "Publish" and same as above, your comment should show up right away. If not, keep trying. :) Of course, if you choose anonymous, at least be sure to sign your name in your comment so we know who you are! :) That is unless you choose for something to be private, like a prayer request or something!

3) If you are reading this thing, and not commenting, you are officially called a "lurker!" I mean, come on, who wants to be a "lurker!" Let me know you're there! I'd love to "meet" you! :)

4) On the sidebar you will find a list of girls ministry websites, those are links so if you click on them, it will take you to that page.

5) At some point I will start listing some good books for you on the sidebar too. So, check those out.

6) Start getting use to the blog. I will try and notify y'all when I have updated, but the more you check it, the more you will get used to this idea. I am going to try and communicate with you all on this blog as much as possible.

7) If you have any questions about this blog, or anything else for that matter, feel free to email me, which you can find in the "profile" or "about this blog" section on the side. :0)

Alright, I'm out. Wow, this was deep, wasn't it! ;) I PROMISE that not all of my posts will be numbered. It's just that this is all new and I feel like keeping y'all in the know about this blog stuff! :)

Let's have a blast with it...I'm getting so excited!

Fun post coming soon...

Love you all,

Lindsee

Welcome!

2008-06-30T14:48:00.000-07:00

Hi girls! Welcome to the new TSMAC girls ministry blog!

I have come to LOVE blogging (which is really just an online journal!) and so I decided to start one for you girls. I have TONS of ideas for this blog so I am so excited!

Just a few ideas for this blog are:

1) A Q&A thing on here at first to get to know me!

2) Devotionals

3) Details about girls ministry events! (Which will hopefully be starting soon!)

4) Pictures from events :)

5) Weekly prayer requests! (You can post anonymously!)

7) Funny Stories

8) Of course some randomness...

9) And much, much more!

Do you have any ideas?!

Really, I am just excited about encouraging you girls on here and hoping and praying that through this blog you would come to love our Jesus more and that we would grow as one big community!

My prayer for each of us on this blog, and the "theme", if you will, is that we would each strive to be a "lily among the thorns." (Solomon 2:2) That we would be set apart, women of God, who have a heart that wants to fall head over heel in love with Jesus. And I am so serious about that, even as cheesy as it may sound. He deserves every ounce of love you have to offer!

Well girls, my time is up today! It is 5:16 p.m. and I am still at the office! Is that legal?! ;)

Just know that I am honored to serve you!

I love you,

Lindsee